Some Things Are Easier Than You Think
Having worked with employment issues through some of the worst economic times and some of the best, it is difficult to ignore some of the seemingly obvious reasons people stay unemployed. In tough times, the following behaviors can make the difference between saving your home and car, and in better economies, they can make the difference between securing an ok job and the job of your dreams.
As I listen to people complain about the economy, I am struck by the fact that I receive new job announcements daily, and, that many of the people that are in such desperate need for paying work may take hours or days to respond when I forward information to them. It also continues to baffle me when people that have been unemployed for more than a year (maybe even 2 or 3 years) compare their past salary with an opportunity, and won’t pursue it because it is less money than they consider themselves to be worth. (Mind you, it may 20-30% less, but that is still 100% more than making nothing.) In the mean time, what they are worth continues to decline, the longer they are out of the market.
Now, none of this is new behavior. It just seems to be more obvious when we are in severe economic times, and more people are losing their homes or filing for bankruptcy. I am not suggesting that the behaviors listed below will guarantee a change in employment status. But I can easily say, they provide a stronger likelihood something can or will change.
1. Get up and get started. This means starting a work day when others start the work day, not when you feel like getting started. Many hiring managers are rolling by 7:00 AM or earlier. If you are not getting started until 10:00 AM, (or in some cases I see, 11:00, 12:00 or 1:00!) you are missing several hours of productive time that others may capitalize on simply by being accessible if something comes up.
2. Pursue any opportunity that is in line with your skill set. If you have been unemployed for over a year, then your market value has already dropped. You are no longer considered “current” or necessarily “competitive” compared to someone that was doing the same thing yesterday or last week. You have a stronger chance of negotiating for more money if you show up and are able to illustrate your value. It isn’t always possible, but not responding pretty much ensures nothing will happen. You can’t turn down an offer that hasn’t been made.
3. Follow up! Many of my clients complain that hiring managers or networking contacts don’t follow through with promises to return calls or provide information. Ok, that might be true. Since when is your priority supposed to be theirs? If it is important to you to know something, then set yourself up to get what you want by defining touch back times when the promise is made, to ensure you get what you need when you expect/need it. Own the process. Don’t rely on others to keep track. Waiting days to follow up after something was a hot topic will most likely kill any possibility of something coming through.
4. Ask for clarity. If someone says something that is left to interpretation, then ask then to clarify or specify their intent. So many times I watch people drop the ball because they “thought” someone meant something other than what they intended. The result was that nothing was done because the party that was expecting to follow through believed the person requesting the information or action was no longer interested, since they didn’t follow up or answer a question that had been posed.
5. Be available. You don’t need the most advanced electronics to do that; you just need to be responsible. Check email frequently. (Can be done at the library or WorkSource). Get a voicemail box you can access from anywhere. Oddly, the people that seem to be most delinquent in responding are people with the latest technologies – palm pilots, iPhones, etc, yet their responses might come hours after the opportunity was already lost. And, I also find many entries on Facebook or Twitter during a time I have tried to reach someone, yet emails and phone calls about immediate opportunities may have gone unheeded.
6. Improve your communication skills. Communication is vital to moving opportunities forward. Answer requests from others in a timely way. If a question has been posed, then answer it. Reading an email and thinking through a possible answer is only half way there. A reply is still required. If you need more time to think about something, then say so! Ignoring a request or question is simply rude. Is that how you wish to be treated when you need something?
7. Stop pretending. Get real about your situation and what you are really doing about it. Be honest with yourself before you tell someone you have “done everything you can”. Is that really true?
Harsh you think? Perhaps not. Minutes before posting this blog I received this email from a client:
“Wow, you sure are keeping me busy! I am looking forward to you going on vacation.”
Perhaps this will spur some people into changing behaviors that have been creating self defeating circumstances. Please share where you can make (or have already made) some simple changes in behavior that could lead (or have led) to different results.
Networking: Career Fitness vs. Physical Fitness
When networking is recommended as a way of maintaining career fitness, I hear many excuses for why it is not possible, or at the very least, very difficult. January is a good time to take a long hard look at what is really in the way for most people when it comes to making a change in their personal and professional lives. Perhaps examining common responses will make it easier for many people to identify the excuses they are using, kick away the barriers and make a new plan for the New Year.
One observation I have made over the past ten years is that the words “commitment” and “planning” seem to be foreign words to many people. In an age of instant gratification, it seems evident that some things just don’t happen immediately, yet there are scores of people who want things to be different, right now, without exerting any effort to make a change.
You think not? Let’s take a look at a couple of pretty comparable situations. Let’s compare physical fitness to career fitness. We’ll start with the obvious of the two: physical fitness.
People want to lose weight, so they take pills, buy pre-measured food, go to spas, and try diets that clearly jeopardize their health. They take the pills, drink the liquid diets, and may work out for a while, but slowly lose interest. After a while, they resort back to their old eating patterns and gain more weight than they had lost. What are their excuses for not creating a change in their eating habits that can be sustained, or for continuing with a work out regimen or before they resort to the next fad?
“ I don’t have time because I work full time.”
“ I have children with after school activities that take precedence.”
“ I am working full time and I am tired at night.”
“ I can’t this month. ”I have to plan a 50th Wedding Anniversary Party.”
“ I don’t have time to cook. I am studying for my Masters degree”.
“ It’s a holiday. I can’t work out on a holiday.”
“ I can’t afford a gym membership” (as they sit in their leather recliner and watch their 72” plasma television screen, before they get in their Land Rover to drive to their $75 manicure appointment or their 4-hour golf game where they will ride around in a $5,000 cart.)
Now, let’s swap objectives and identify the reasons people give for not committing to networking activities that may increase the effectiveness of their job search or career development:
“I don’t have time because I am working a temp job (or working full time).”
“I have children with after school activities that take precedence.”
“ I am working full time and I am tired at night.”
“I can’t this month. ”I have to plan a 50th Wedding Anniversary Party.”
“I don’t have time. I am studying for my Masters degree”.
“It’s a holiday. I can’t work out on a holiday.”
And let’s not omit:
“ I can’t afford the costs of meetings or memberships” (as they sit in their leather recliner and watch their 72” plasma television screen, before they get in their Land Rover to drive to their $75 manicure appointment…)
The reality is, any new outcome requires a change in thinking, a change in behavior, commitment to the end result, planning, and consistency. Networking requires a change in how you are looking at your current circumstances and the roadblocks in front of you. It requires a commitment to your goal of broadening your contacts and maintaining relationships, planning so that you are able to fit networking activities in with all of life’s other events, and consistency. There is no magic pill. Building and sustaining a network doesn’t happen over night, any more than physical fitness can.
What will you be doing differently in regard to networking this year?
Attitude: Do You Have a Service-Driven Mind Set?
This week I had an ah-hah moment, although it had actually been incubating for a long time.
Although we are in a recession, there are business owners, contractors, and consultants I know who are crazy busy. Most of my clients are working, and they are crazy busy. If generally speaking, it is believed that there are few jobs and business is down, how can that be?
After considering the commonalities between the people I know who are busy, and those who are not, I was able to identify connections between apparent mind sets and observable results. The people I know who are truly service-driven, customer focused, attentive, responsive, willing to try something new and ready to solve problems, all seem to be busy. In contrast, the people I know (from personal experience) who are slow to respond, unwilling to think out of the box, unwilling to get uncomfortable and have a ‘what’s in it for me’ attitude, all seem to be idle.
Now, this is just my observation of the people I know or come in contact with, but perhaps something to consider if you are not getting the results you desire. Are you willing to change your mind set enough to see if you are able to produce different results?
